Hi!
I am admittedly somewhat ignorant of auto buying altogether and limited knowledge of vehicles in general other than I drive them and get my oil changed regularly. I need to buy a new vehicle asap and I am a bit confused with all my research so I am looking for advice. In my own personal experience Dodge/Chrysler vehicles have served me well while my only ever brand new purchase was a Chevy Uplander and that was a bust, not to mention a gently used Pontiac that also didn't bode well either.
I have been toying with the idea of the Dodge Durango. Although friends have advised against, suggesting the Ford Explorer, Honda Pilot and the like, I just simply like the way the Durango feels driving way better than the others. This is pretty important since I put about 35,000 miles a year on my cars. Currently I am driving a Chrysler Town and Country minivan which I bought gently used and have thoroughly enjoyed but truthfully, I have to drive in inclement weather and thought as my Town and Country is nearing it's end of value to invest any money in repairs, I should invest in an AWD vehicle.
So here is where my confusion begins:
Why are the reliability ratings of the Durango so poor when the driver review are so high?
I am told to make sure I get the HEMI engine but would like to understand why that is so important when it is so much more money and very difficult to find.
My priorities are as mentioned, AWD, 3rd row (which I understand in standard), heated seats, power liftgate, power driver's seat. I would like power fold seats (is this available?), and the most cargo space available.
Again, professing my ignorance, how do I know what versions have the features I want and what exactly is available. I don't find the Dodge website particularly helpful and I can't even tell if an extended cab is available or exactly what version of the HEMI engine comes in which suv and what the significant difference is.
If it's inappropriate to ask here I apologize, but is there a better vehicle for me to consider?
Oh, I should mention I am looking to buy slightly used and trying not to finance.
Thanks in advance for your kind consideration and patience. Any help is greatly appreciated!
Lisa

I am admittedly somewhat ignorant of auto buying altogether and limited knowledge of vehicles in general other than I drive them and get my oil changed regularly. I need to buy a new vehicle asap and I am a bit confused with all my research so I am looking for advice. In my own personal experience Dodge/Chrysler vehicles have served me well while my only ever brand new purchase was a Chevy Uplander and that was a bust, not to mention a gently used Pontiac that also didn't bode well either.
I have been toying with the idea of the Dodge Durango. Although friends have advised against, suggesting the Ford Explorer, Honda Pilot and the like, I just simply like the way the Durango feels driving way better than the others. This is pretty important since I put about 35,000 miles a year on my cars. Currently I am driving a Chrysler Town and Country minivan which I bought gently used and have thoroughly enjoyed but truthfully, I have to drive in inclement weather and thought as my Town and Country is nearing it's end of value to invest any money in repairs, I should invest in an AWD vehicle.
So here is where my confusion begins:
Why are the reliability ratings of the Durango so poor when the driver review are so high?
I am told to make sure I get the HEMI engine but would like to understand why that is so important when it is so much more money and very difficult to find.
My priorities are as mentioned, AWD, 3rd row (which I understand in standard), heated seats, power liftgate, power driver's seat. I would like power fold seats (is this available?), and the most cargo space available.
Again, professing my ignorance, how do I know what versions have the features I want and what exactly is available. I don't find the Dodge website particularly helpful and I can't even tell if an extended cab is available or exactly what version of the HEMI engine comes in which suv and what the significant difference is.
If it's inappropriate to ask here I apologize, but is there a better vehicle for me to consider?
Oh, I should mention I am looking to buy slightly used and trying not to finance.
Thanks in advance for your kind consideration and patience. Any help is greatly appreciated!
Lisa