I agree K3 is a starter relay. Terminology on the lid (see above pic) says starter solenoid relay. Again I know what a solenoid is. It’s a high power version of a relay found on the starter to power the starter and engage the drive gear with the teeth on the flywheel.
So the problem I’m having is intermittent starting. It always starts if it cranks. Battery is good. Starter is new. I believe the signal is not getting to the starter. It’s not random and it’s not mechanical within the ignition switch. It always starts first drive of the day or if it’s been sitting for longer than 20 minutes after driving. Sometimes it takes a second turn if no response on the first turn, and sometimes a momentary hesitation before starting but always starts. After driving sometime, shut off the engine, turn it back in a try to start and it may not start. No cranking. Just some mysterious clicks. The dash lights and radio will shut off. After five seconds they come back, try to start again and dash lights and radio go off again, then back again 5 seconds and so on. If I keep trying, it will never start. If I let it rest 10 and try, if may not start and the 20 minute clock restarts. If I wait 20 minutes it usually starts up fine. Does not appear to be affected by how hot or cold the day is. Engine temp is normal even on very hot days.
Since all the auto part stores seem to think this green relay goes on my car, I’d like to know where. Most guys in those places only know what the website tells them to say so I haven’t found a “car guy” that knows. I don’t want to return it if it’s something I can try to swap out and possibly fix our starting issue.
We had similar troubles when a GPS device required by our lender had communication problems. They sent a tech out and confirmed the error and replaced the part and then everything was fine. Then a few years later a similar problem occurred and we thought it might be the same device but our lender said we did not need to have it on our car anymore but it was our responsibility to have it removed - so we took it to an alarm company who removed it and also found an additional GPS that we didn’t even know about and removed that too. We assume since the car was originally a lease that the leasing company had a GPS on there as well. After those were removed the problem was fixed then slowly started happening again and getting more frequent and now is happening in this pattern I described above.