hey radar,
I have the 3.6 pen as well and I pull a 26ft jayco toy hauler without any issues. the only thing id like to change is getting a lower RMP and better performance in 5th and 6th gear. at 65-70mph I was hovering around 3500 RPM in 5th, 6th gear was just a dead pedal unless I was on flat roads and even then 6th has no power at all so, now I am looking into the diablo tuner, they're claiming better power for towing. I am looking at the i3 with the tuned PCM, so if anyone has any input on the tuners for the 3.6, please chime in, id like to hear your opinions but please keep the V8 swap comments to yourself. love my D and I am totally fine with the 3.6 pen. anyways, the complete setup is just a little over $900 and would be worth the investment if it does actually work. it does have a to tune in the programmer and I was researching the diablo forums and it sounds like its worth buying if you are looking for more towing power from the v6.
so I live in Michigan and took the Durango and toy hauler to cape Hatters last October, was a 16.5 hour drive and had to stop 4 times for fuel. think I was getting around 250 miles on a full tank and I was averaging around 10 mph and coming back at 70-75 mph I averaged 8 mph, guessing that wasn't to bad considering its a 5200lb hauler and had all my gear and my scooter on this trip.
so, now I know what she does, I already have another trip planned to cape Hatteras in April, hope ill have made up my mind on the tuner by then so I can compare the before and after results.