I'm the original poster...
And I just wanted to add that I don't Park on a hill or anything... And I get the blue smoke sitting on the flat.
I will say that it only happens occasionally... But seems to be more pronounced after a long drive or spirited driving.
For those who still have the problem after replacing the pan, flashing the ecm, and/or adding a catch can this might be a fix.
My guess is for those who noticed it after there exhaust install... You probably noticed it because you spend more time staring at your pretty exhaust